LESSONS LEARNED SINCE COMING TO BRAZIL

Dr. Hall: What are some of the cultural lessons you have learned since coming to Brazil?

Andréa W. One thing that I’ve learned since being in Brazil is the importance of properly communicating my thoughts and feelings. This is not only important when communicating with someone of another language but also with those that speak the same language. More culturally focused, I have (or am beginning) to learn that close attention needs to be placed upon the people around me at any given time, especially here in a culture where relationships are of very high importance.

Miranda S. I live with an absolutely wonderful family. I am learning what an average Brazilian family is like. I see how they interact with one another. They are affectionate and the love that they have for each is expressed on a daily basis. They always want to know how your day went and I know when they ask that they really do care to know. For me, this showing of affection and love is new. However, I’m finding how much I receive from it and really enjoy every moment of Brazilian company.

Scott B. I have learned that those that are Christians are very passionate about their relationship with God. They take the church services seriously and always seem to want to do more for Christ. They give thanks to God for their daily health and are humble in their talents –they always say that these talents come from God and should be used for His glory. … They love their “futebol.” Every single person I have talked to has a favorite team and those that they dislike. I enjoy watch[ing] and going to the games.

Laura E. Being timid and shy is not a good thing. It is almost perceived as rude to not want to talk to people not known. Everyone talks to everyone and friends can be made while waiting for the bus, or standing in line. The point is to show others you are interested in them by attempting to speak to them. … Touch is not a horrible thing! If you care about someone at all, you will show it not only with words but also by touching their shoulders and hands. Touch does not always have to be sexual or convey some sort of interest other than friendly affection.

Jamie S. I have learned about Brazilian hospitality. A Brazilian friend will greet you with a kiss, feed you until you can’t eat anymore and then shower you with compliments and gifts. They take their friendships very seriously, making sure to never even let a greeting or a goodbye slip by. To ignore or neglect a Brazilian person in any ways is a very bad move. … But there is one thing that Brazilians do not take seriously. Every morning my host mother makes me late to class. After the first morning, I let go of my American ideal and accepted that I would be 5 minutes late to class every day and 15 minutes late to be picked up. I’ve learned to adjust to her timing and enjoy the ride and her company.

Deirdre Mc. Learning, or what I learn, is up to me. Many students here go to school in the evening and work all morning. My host sister has one of the most stressful schedules I have ever witnessed. One could not possibly live this lifestyle unless he/she wanted to learn. Dedication is key to education.